Monday, 13 November 2017

Service And Leadership Award: Global Hope India.



At my university they run an award called the “Service and Leadership Award”. I got introduced to it as an undergraduate but never had time to do it often working two jobs as well as trying to balance my academic work with having a social life, I just couldn’t do it. Then when I realised I would be studying my masters at the same university and only having six hours of lessons a week and working part-time as a Senior Resident Tutor in halls, as well as recently having broken up with my boyfriend at the time I thought it the ample time to do it. I attended the mandatory sessions which gave an overview about volunteering and advice which gave me confidence when picking a project to volunteer on. I attended a session on global leadership which taught me that there is no universally good leadership style but many and that it is okay to make mistakes but also to learn from other people’s mistakes when reflecting on previous jobs I’ve been in (and believe me I’ve had a fair few jobs). It also gave me confidence to take new risks and lead my own life and to say yes to opportunities which came my way and ironically the following week. I was then approached by my boss at the time who asked if I’d like to go on Global Hope.


Team Building and Training:
The university runs a charity and they send students and staff on projects all over the world for 2-3 weeks where you volunteer and teach activities in different settings from Uganda to Brazil. I applied and was appointed a Senior Student Position so I had to fund-raise £800 and after the second week of the project when the other staff members left I and another Senior Student would have to help lead the group. My global leadership training gave me the confidence that I could do the role in the third week and so I said yes. You have to attend training sessions which allow you to bond with your group and plan before you embark on the volunteering itself. During the sessions we did scenario training, group trust excersizes and we were also encouraged to hang out together in a social setting outside of the training which we did. We went for meals and the thing that brought out team together the most before the trip was the fundraising events that we did.
The two staff members who went with us Laura and Faye went above and beyond to aid us with our fundraising efforts. We did a bake sale, a few cooking events where we made and sold curry as well as a fashion show. The tasks such as cooking the curries and making sandwiches and cleaning up the fashion show was an opportunity to dish out jobs to each other and work as part of a team to create the end product of a clean kitchen or a nice curry.


Communication Skills:
We were leading English language workshops and teaching to female university students studying at JAC college. There were two classes a day, one in the morning then we would rotate and teach a different class in the afternoon teaching six days a week. The classes consisted of between 50-90 students. English was not the students’ first language and so we had to think of tasks and workshops to improve their English language. The girls’ first language was Tamil and they also knew Hindi as well as English. During our planning stages we used our knowledge from our degrees. I’m currently studying for my masters in English Literature and my undergraduate was English Literature and Drama combined. So I used drama techniques to help the girls with their confidence when speaking out loud. We did a lot of tongue twisters in order to help their pronunciation. We did story tasks where the students would form small groups we would give them a word such as horse and they would have to write a short story in English about that word. After writing the stories we would read them and correct the grammar and spellings with them we then chose the best stories and the students would read them out loud improving their written and spoken skills.

After we had done a few of the story workshops we collected example sentences from the stories that the students had already written. The sentences were incorrect sentences grammatically or the words hadn’t been spelled correctly. We put the sentences on the screen and as a group the students would tell us what was wrong with the sentence then come and correct it. We also played games like hang man in which they learnt how to spell some difficult words as a group. They beat us pretty much every time.
I was asked by the English department to give a lecture as well on Greek theatre. So I gave my lecture to 60 postgraduate students with a question and answer session after the hour long lecture. Teaching these tasks to the Indian students whose first language was not English whilst developing their communication skills allowed me to develop mine. I had to rethink the way that I phrased and explained things as sometimes the wording was too complex or alter the pace of my speaking to suit the students. I also learnt the importance of dividing tasks equally between each other as well as rotating who was in which group and changing who we worked with every day.

In the third week at the beginning we taught in a primary school for a couple days. Teaching the early years standard one and two (reception and year one here). The children between 4-5 and 5-6 could barely speak Tamil properly let alone learn English. So we quickly learned how to communicate with the children through body language nodding and frowning if they starting acting naughty. We also lead activities using their chalk boards drawing numbers or pictures with them. We also sang English nursery rhymes and songs to the children and taught them dances such as you’re happy and you know it and they enjoyed it a lot. We prepared for the sessions thinking that we would be with the older children who knew some English. But having to work with the younger ones who spoke no English assisted us in our improvisation and thinking on our feet. It also helped us develop our body language and facial expressions as a the main way of communicating and we soon learnt that they are so important when expressing emotions in both a personal and professional setting.


What went wrong?
With the students being older and adults around our own age we didn’t expect that there would be behavioural issues. But there was, some students got confident and a little cheeky some even fell asleep during our sessions and knowing how to gain control back of the lesson or task was hard when these things occurred and it wasn’t something we planned for so we had to think on our feet and improvise.
You also can’t plan for if a team mate is sick or cannot teach sessions, we experienced this and I myself was one of the people who ended up not teaching for half a day as my leg  came out in an allergic reaction after being stung by a plant. You just have to be flexible and willing to work that extra bit harder when having to teach with less numbers. We managed it fine it just meant we had to rethink tasks that involved the smaller groups and did more main group work.
I also didn’t realise how limited the resources there were. The only computers we had access to were in a computer room that was open until 5:00pm when we finished classes at 4:30/ 4:45 most days. So I had to prepare an hour lecture over the course of five days as I didn’t have the resources or time to just sit at a computer as and when I wanted. Which makes me appreciate my libraries facilities a whole lot more especially when their internet took 10 mins to load one webpage.
On some days we also ran out of tasks to do as the students had gotten through them all very quickly compared to other groups so we had to again improvise and add onto tasks that they’d already done to make them harder. For instance we’d make them do word searches and if they finished that quickly we’d ask them to put the words into sentences. Then make a story with all of the words in if they finished the sentences. So this helped with problem solving and developed our creative thinking.


Leadership:
At the end of the second week of the project the two staff members left and me and another Senior Student were left in charge of the project. This meant that we had to liaise with the staff who run the college. We were also given a choice of staying at JAC or going to another college for disabled students two and a half hours away in Madurai. I decided to speak with the staff member who runs global hope and she advised us that we could go to Madurai if we felt confident in a new setting for the final week. I decided that it would be good for us to have a change of setting and experience something new and some new teaching settings.

 We went to the small college in Madurai where we taught university and postgraduate students lectures and seminars in psychology and English literature. We had to divide the tasks and lectures between us. I also had to assist in navigating the airports and making travel arrangements for our return to the UK. Leading the team through the airports and following signs and making sure we were in the right terminals as we travelled back together through three different airports on three flights. 



It’s given me confidence now and I have no trouble stepping into a leadership role. Most of all it has helped improve my decision making skills. I’m a very indecisive person at times and having to choose to go to Madurai or not for the final week tested my choice making skills. I am now able to communicate effectively, I know the importance of working as part of a team but also when to step up and be a leader.  The SALA and Global Hope programme have helped develop not only my professional skills but also my personal skills and my outlook on life has altered since doing the volunteer work. Its not just something for your CV its an experience that  allows you to develop skills, friends, experience a completely different part of the world and culture as well as make memories for life. If anyone is thinking of volunteering abroad on projects similar or is interested in Global Hope. My advice is to do what I did just say yes and do it!  


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Wednesday, 8 November 2017

Long Time No Post...

Its been a good while since I've posted on here and to be honest a lot has changed.  I'll try and keep it short and sweet.

I became a vegetarian (even tried being vegan for four months but couldn't hack it). No more meat for me and have drastically reduced the amount of products I consume with cows milk in them (can't give up halloumi though).

Me and my ex broke up which was a pretty big milestone.

I got a job at my university working in the halls. This is my second year in my job and I enjoy every second of it. I've even made speeches so my fear of public speaking has gone bye bye.




I also got a job in the library. I also started to volunteer in the universities archives and can handle books that are hundreds of years old. 

I've nearly finished my masters degree in English literature and will be starting either a PhD or Mphil next September. I chaired and presented my first ever academic paper at a conference. I also gave my first ever lecture which was in Greek Theatre at JAC university in India to a group of 50 postgraduate students.

I've began traveling abroad again I went to Cape Verde and India and Northern Ireland.





I've made some new best friends and lost one or two along the way, people change and we out grow each other.



I'm now a non biological 'auntie' to my practically sister and childhood friend's three gorgeous children. My dog misty and the two hamsters Beckett and Sam passed away over the past 12 months which has been devastating but I am a mother to my new fur baby Pip. 

I got a new hobby and learned how to do gel manicures and am pretty good at it now. 



My anxiety now has a friend called depression. I no longer get panic attacks I haven't had one in over two years now. However, over the past two years my depression has worsened but a few months ago I got help and now manage it efficiently.

I'm a very different person to the girl who began this blog. I've just finished reading my old posts and although I still do the same things academically (which have improved a little bit I'd like to say) I've grown a lot and my attitude and the way I handle things has very much altered. I'm not a mug or a door mat anymore I stand up for myself and what I believe in. 
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Saturday, 16 January 2016

Doing Performance Art in Public.


I have never ever done something like this in my entire life but I did last weekend. I have performed in two productions whilst I've been at university, both have been assessed performances I couldn't escape. The thought of performing in front of a willing audience made my skin crawl. Doing this today in the beginning made me wish that the ground would swallow me whole. I managed to pull off a durational performance as I sat there in the cold and rain for 4 hours whilst I sketched away. The only durational performance I've done before is raving my lil head off with my fave DJ Gareth Emery for his 6 hour set at the Albert Hall in Manchester last February.


As part of our contemporary performance module we have to base part of it upon our practice and give examples. Since my practice in limited due to being combined honours and preferring the theory and shying away from the practical; doing something like this took big balls for me. With my anxiety I hate strangers enough as it is, but I decided to bite the bullet and bloody do it. I was 'busking' in Liverpool city centre outside Lime Street Station. I sat there sketching for 4 hours and after a while placed a cup on the floor for people to put money in if they fancied (surprisingly they did).


The point of the piece wasn't about me getting over my fears of the public, It was to show that anyone can do art and performance art anywhere. You don't have to be classically trained in fine art or attended a prestigious drama school to do these things. I also wanted people to be able to see art whilst they're busy doing their consumer Saturday shopping. Most people who walked past me gazed at me and then at the art I was creating. People don't spend their leisure time going to galleries staring at paintings anymore. They spend their time by spending their money in shops as the capitalist system wants them to,

So not only was I trying to show that you can do art anywhere it was to allow the public to see a piece of performance art and piece of art original art, rather than mechanical simulacra reproductions. The overall aim was for one person to look at the art, never mind the hundreds who gazed for the 4 hours I was there for (even in the rain I carried on going). I think it worked. And I managed to draw this in the four hours pretty proud of my pencil skills considering I only started sketching with them last year.


What you waiting for go do your own little piece of performance art. It's not as scary as it sounds, 

Thanks for reading, 



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Sunday, 25 October 2015

OOTD: #6 Denim Skirt Staples

So today I'd say was an Indian summer day it was warm and over cast I ended up wearing sunglasses. There was no need for a coat it was that warm I got away with this colourful hoodie with no hood.


Denim Skirt: £10 (sale) H&M 
Tshirt: £3 (Sale) George at ASDA
Maroon Jacket: £15 (reduced) in Tkmaxx

300 Denier Tights: £3 Primark 
Headband: £1.00 Primark
Bag: Gift (but from Tkmaxx)
Trainers: £20 Tkmaxx
Wristbands: Festivals and concerts
Rings: Gifts 
Friendship bracelets: Gift shop in Cornwall. 

I always get cold legs so opted for the thick cosy tights from Primark that are fluffy on the inside. So nice perfect for winter. The denim skirt is surprisingly comfy, I feel like I'm gunna walk out of a TLC or Destiny's Child music video when I wear it though. #fashionthrowback ey? The outfit would be pretty plain if it wasn't for the loud jacket, which matches my lippie. Which I love, one of the reasons I love Tkmaxx the stuff you buy there is unique and different. I chose plain trainers because the jacket stands on its own. 

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Tuesday, 29 September 2015

Review: Maybelline Super Stay 24 Hour Color


 
So this is a review of the mouthful that is the Maybelline Super Stay 24 Hour Color in the colour Jade. The colour is a very deep red. Like an oxblood or maroon (not the band). The deep colour looks fab on all skin tones from pale to dark. I find colours like this suit my olive skin tone really well, better than traditional reds.

The pigmentation is fantastic just one sweep from the applicator and your good to go. No patchiness or bleeding / feathering and it dosen't sit or cling to the dry patches on my lips. 

It is however, very drying and dries to a matte finish. Which adds to its staying power when it says 24 hours I am pretty convinced it will last that long. I worked a 8 hour shift and talked all day to people and it managed to stay on and not move when I was eating my dinner. So if you're getting that drunk you'll applying your lipstick to make yourself look like the joker then this is a good un' cause you do not need re-application. It will last all night. 

 I do not need to reapply this lipstick at all during the day which gives me confidence. It comes with a balm at the opposite end of the liquid lipstick to set it or add some gloss if you're not that happy with the mattness or looks a little dry. 

It is however hard to remove I use either micellar water or coconut oil and wipe it off with some tissue or bog roll.  It is by far my favorite lipstick in my collection.

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Wednesday, 23 September 2015

Contraception: 1 Year on From My Implant

My original post can be found here about my experience getting it fitted and first impressions and dismissing rumors and old wives tales.



Here's my impressions one year on after having the implant first implanted (see what I did there).

My periods are far from regular. I can go 3 months without having them then have recently had regular monthly ones. But that's fine with me, before hand my periods were only made regular by the pill. I don't mind missing periods or not having them dose not bother me. But if you need the reassurance of a regular period the implant might not  be for you. Different people react differently to the hormones and some people are lucky enough to not have periods for the length they have it and others bleed very heavily without breaks, like my friend did. She had to be put on the pill as well to regulate and stop the bleeding, she decided to have it removed and went back on the normal pill. It isn't for everyone but definitely works for me. I don't have to worry about taking the pill all the time and me being forgetful the implant is perfect for me.

The pain of my periods has reduced dramatically I don't really feel the need to constantly take ibuprofen and use the gel on my back. The pain is barely there and when it does come I just take some paracetamol or ibuprofen. The bleeding it no where near as heavy. (Might be T.M.I) but I used to have to use like 5-6 tampons/ pads a day. The bleeding has reduced dramatically like the pain my periods are now very very light. I get the occasional bit of spotting but most people get that.


As for the weight myth, my need for eating hasn't increased like it did on the pill. I managed to loose 2 and  a half stone whilst I was at university going to the gym 3 times a week and eating healthy-ish. Even whilst having the implant I've managed to loose weight (although I stress ate during exams and put some of it back on). But I stress eat during exam times like junk food and energy drinks, and that has no correlation with the implant because I do it every year, unfortunately.

Me and my boyfriend do still use condoms. Me and my boyfriend have agreed it's a belts and braces approach. Because I do not want kids right now so its puts my over worrying mind at rest using two methods of contraception.

And no I cannot feel it move in my arm, and I can only feel it if I run my fingers over the part of my arm where it is. And no it does not hurt me at all. 

So the implant is 5/5 for me and works as my main form of contraception.
For more info on the implant check out this nhs website

Thanks for reading,
 (Diagram from https://healthy.kaiserpermanente.org/health/care/)
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Sunday, 20 September 2015

OOTD: #5 Autumn Air (Crosby Beach)


Here's a little outfit post, from when we went to Crosby Beach in Liverpool, the beach with the iron men (not the marvel super hero) statues. Autumn is just around the corner and that means the jumpers, layers, thick fluffy tights and snuggly granny pants are out! I love all the seasons but Autumn is by far my favorite that nice liminal state between Summer and cold crisp weather. Longer nights and of course University and school starting up again.


PUMA Trainers - £20.00 Tkmaxx
300 Denier Tights - Primark 
Cordoroy Skirt- £20 Next
Jumper - £7 TU Sainsburys
Jacket- £15 TU Sainsburys

Sunglasses - Free from Concert
Scarf - Gift (Similar designs in Primark right now)
Jewellery assorted - from boutiques and Argos. 
Bag - Tkmaxx
Headband - Free from my Mum's craft room. 



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